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Meet Your
Inner Dom
Meet Your
Inner Dom
Meet Your Inner Dom
Step into your Dominant, confident self to transform your relationships and your life
WITH Emily Letts
(Formerly Frankie Feathers)
A Personal Invitation from Emily
What is a Dom?
it is anyone who finds pleasure in Consensually controlling another person.
It is someone who knows what they want and knows how to express it.
Dear Friend,
Five years ago, I felt confused and overwhelmed by my sexuality. I felt like I was somehow broken, or stunted because nothing seemed to feel organic. Both my life and my sexuality seemed to be falling apart.
However, in the midst of feeling lost, I had a vision of a sexual life that touched into the darkest parts of my soul, to the parts that I barely acknowledged, in order ignite a visceral passion and connection unlike anything I had ever experienced.
I now know that my vision was calling me towards conscious kink, where I could play out my fantasies, my personal challenges, my insecurities in a safe and meaningful way with a partner who shared my vision and erotic senses. I knew that my sexuality could be a source of both deep pleasure and healing.
In order to take my first step on this path I had to confront my fears and so I began to question – “What does being Dominant with a partner have to offer me and how do I explore it when it feels so terrifying?”
What is a Dom?
it is anyone who finds pleasure in Consensually controlling another person.
It is someone who knows what they want and knows how to express it.
Meet Your Inner Dom is the product of a five year quest to embody the Dominant role in a way that touched on my vision for divine union in partnership and my desire to deepen my spirituality through Eros. Through this quest I learned how to step into my power, to find pleasure through controlling another person consensually and how to find the confidence needed to reshape my life into the masterpiece it currently is.
For those of you who feel lost yet hears call to go deeper, my wish is that Meet Your Inner Dom becomes the spark in the darkness that guides you back to yourself, the you that you have always known existed.
With you on the journey,
Here’s What You’ll Experience In
this eight part program:
1. Introduction to Conscious Kink
- What to Expect in this course
- Vocabulary you need to know
- Somatic Awareness and why it is important
- Safe Words
- Personal Accountability
- Set Your Intention
To start the course we explore some foundational pieces to exploring conscious kink. We cover everything to vocabulary used in the conscious kink world and why words matter. We cover what it means to listen to your body’s signals to keep you and your partner safe, how to create safe words and what they mean, as well as what it means to be a accountable for your own personal experience and why that is a crucial part of kink negotiations. Finally, you will set your intention for the course and be on your way.
2. Key Concepts
- Polarity: The Divine Masculine and The Divine Feminine
- Defining a Dom
Understanding why Kink is so effective is understanding the concept of polarity between two people. Polarity comes from tantric principles that account for the attraction of “The Divine Masculine” and “The Divine Feminine”. Described and framed in a conscious kink context, the module is one of the most important in the course. Afterwords we begin to get detailed on what exactly makes a conscious Dom and how to approach a Dom persona.
The Three A's Needed to Become a Dom
3. Authority
- Ownership and the Fear of Rejection
- Solo Practice: Rewiring Rejection
- Partner experience: The Yes/No Game
The conscious Dom persona is broken down into three traits: Authority, Attention and Attunement. In the Authority module we discuss what it feels like to enjoy ownership of another person, entity and even your life as well as tips and tricks to how to embody it. We also discuss how fear of rejection can obstruct the pleasure of ownership and how to overcome that fear. The module includes both a solo exercise as well as a partner exercise to explore rewiring rejection, giving way to the full delight of authority.
4. Attention
- Attention
- Solo Practice: Mirror Work
- Partner experience: Objective Witnessing
The Attention module expands upon the idea that a Dom has the pleasure of creating their entire universe, as if stepping into the role of god and how they wield their attention is how they create that universe. The modules explores how to effectively use their attention in a way that builds their authority and invites play.
5. Attunement
- Attunement
- Presence
- Awareness
- Responsiveness
- Responsiveness: Solo Practice
- Responsiveness: Partner Practice
Attunement is arguably one of the most important qualities of a conscious Dom, allowing the Dom to read their submissive as well as themselves to not only keep everyone safe, but also to achieve the coveted flow state that is possible in kink scenes. Because of this importance Attunement is broken down into three qualities: Presence, Awareness and Responsiveness.
6. The Wheel of Consent
- The Wheel of Consent
- Three Minute Game
The module pulls from Betty Martin’s famous Wheel of Consent as a template to understand the different pathways into a Dom persona including Taking, Serving, Accepting and Allowing. Using her Three Minute Game, you will learn how to put these in your bodies to begin to feel which pathway sparks something for you.
7. The Flavors of Dominance
It is common to think there is only one archetype of a Dom. However, this module goes over the many different flavors of dominance, giving a demonstration for each and how to explore which flavor speaks to you.
8. Conclusion
Finally, to wrap up the journey we discuss next steps, explore what you’ve learned and envision how you want to use your new Dom persona.
BONUS!
Create your own kink list
As a Bonus, you and your partner, or you alone, will be guided to create your very own kink list. The exercise, complete with a companion PDF will help you uncover your greatest turn ons, turn offs and everything in between. It’s the perfect date activity or solo night in.
Meet Your Inner Dom Tuition
Tuition for the eight Part pre-recorded Program
The Eckhart Tolle School of Awakening
tuition FOR THE LIVE IN-PERSON program OPTION
After you enroll, you will receive further details about the event and a link to book a room at the retreat location at our group discount rate. Travel and hotel accommodations are not included in the program tuition.
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